Saturday, April 14, 2012

What should I do to feel 'much' better

What should I do to feel 'much' better?
I had a girl whom we love each other a lot. we lived together and we spent like 5 months together. Then an unfortunate thing happened when she had to leave last Tuesday because her English course was deported and her mum ordered her to come back to Mongolia. She left me with sweetest memories and her stuff and made me in tears in the airport. She loves me a lot. I don't think we will break up soon, but I know it will happen. What should I do to feel better about myself? Please help...
Singles & Dating - 6 Answers
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ok, just get along. you know we are all floating our lifeboats in the stream of time. Good and bad whatever occurs have to be put into the chop into the water to get boat going. Why lose we have to get ready to face opposite currents in waters. Then what will you do?
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My uncle once told me this: "Just think about the good times. If they bring a smile to your face, then you're in great shape!." Personaly, If you really want to be with her, with all your heart, drop everything and go get her. You are the only one who feels that way about her. None of us do no matter what we write. I do feel that if you fail in your journey, you did it because of love. Love never fails.
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get another girl..preferably one that doesnt live in Mongolia.
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How much do you love her? If its that deep..follow her. If not just try to date more and find someone else to share and make good mermories with.
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I AM PRETTY SURE YOU HAVE HER CONTACT INFO SO KEEP IN TOUCH ONLY TIME COULD TELL WHAT WILL HAPPEN BETWEEN YOU TWO THINK POSITIVE AND POSITIVE WILL HAPPEN AS FAR AS FEELING BETTER THINK ABOUT ALL THE GOOD THINGS YOU AND HER DID TOGETHER ESPECIALLY ON HOW YOU GUYS FIRST MET AND LETS SAY DOWN THE LINE GOD FORBID YOU TWO HAPPEN TO GO YOUR SEPARATE WAYS THINK OF THIS AS A LIFE LEARNED EXPERIENCE SO CHEER UP
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Don't you know that love is ambiguous? The heart has a way of deceiving you and your own thoughts can betray you. No one human being can ever know how or what the heart thinks. Five months is not a long time to know for sure whether you love someone. It's the idea that you may have loved her that your struggling to get over. Exercise, read self-help books, talk to people and share your concerns with others, opening up your problem with others is a healthy way to let go of your pains, date other women.

Saturday, April 7, 2012

Tell me a folk tale from your country

Tell me a folk tale from your country?
Mongolia: Erkhii mergen or why the marmot doesn't have a thumb Once upon a time there were seven suns up in the sky and a terrible draught made the soil redden and crack. The rivers dried up, the plants and the trees withered. The people suffered from the heat and the animals were dying. All this seemed to be inevitable. But in one region there lived an handsome archer called Erkhii mergen who shot at what he saw and hit what he had shot at. Many people and animals came to him and begged him: "Please shoot the seven suns in the sky and destroy them." The archer Erkhii mergen was very conceited about his accuracy as an archer and thought himself a brave, strong and proud man. So he took an oath: "If I can't shoot the seven suns with seven arrows, I will cut off my thumbs and no longer be a man. I will no longer drink clear water, eat the dry grass from the last year and continue my life as a marmot living in a dark hole beneath the earth." From the east he shot at the seven suns moving high up in the sky one after another from the east to the west. After he had shot the sixth sun, he aimed carefully at the seventh. But just then a swallow came flying along and concealed the sun. When the arrow got released from Erkhii mergen's bow, it didn't hit the sun but the swallow's tail. That's why the swallow has a forked tail. The last sun was afraid of Erkhii mergen and hurried to hide behind the mountains in the west. Erkhii mergen thought: "The swallow obstructed my view." And so he took his piebald horse and set out to chase the swallow and kill it. His horse swore: "I will chase the swallow from dusk to dusk. If I haven't caught up with the swallow by then, cut off my forelegs and throw them away. Then I will be no longer a horse but live in an uneven and rough place." But no matter how fast the horse ran, the swallow was always just out of reach and boldly flew around their heads. Finally dusk came upon them and the horse hadn't been able to catch up with the swallow. Erkhii mergen got very angry and cut off the two forelegs of his piebald horse. Since then it lives in an uneven and rough place and has become a Mongolian jumping mouse whose frontlegs are short, too. It is told, that the swallow is still mocking riders crying: "Catch me if you can!" when at dusk she is flying in circles around the rider's heads. The proud Erkhii mergen stayed true to his own word and cut off his thumbs. He didn't live as man anymore but become a marmot. He didn't drink pure water anymore, ate the dry grass from the previous year and lived in a hole beneath the earth. Since then, it is told, the marmot has only four fingers at each paw. And early each morning Erkhii mergen forgets that he has become a marmot: he comes out of his hole and waits for the sun to rise wanting to shoot this last sun from the sky. And there is one more thing: There is a piece of meat in a marmot called "man's meat" which no human is allowed to eat because the Mongolian people believe that it is Erkhii mergen's flesh. Tthe only sun remaining in the sky is still afraid of Erkhii mergen and hides behind the mountains in the west. That's why there are day and night.
Polls & Surveys - 5 Answers
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Once upon a time Mary had a little lamb........
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http://i28.photobucket.com/albums/c217/ocreampies/motivation/americawelcome.jpg enjoy
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once upon a time there was a country filled with stupid people. thats from the good ol' USA
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once upon a time... there was an ugly barnacle. he was so ugly that everyone died. THE END!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
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food is poland's second god ;-) lol

Sunday, April 1, 2012

I dont get it....road beggars

I dont get it....road beggars?
Im not a mean person, ofcourse I give pity to those who unfortunatly happen to walk in between traffic and keep begging car goers for money, I live in Toronto, Canada, and I see these individuals alot when Im on the bus or in the car etc, as much as i give pity, I also dont pity them, for gods sake I see grown guys who seem perfectly fit to atleast carry a part time job of carrying boxes or such and EARn money, and yet they beg, I say this becuase this is a society with so much oppurtunity, look at other countries, such as India or Mongolia, there you will find many many people lying in the street doing nothing but beg, now that I will pity, for theres really nothing for them, I would even give them all i got in my pocket eventhough knowing it wouldnt make a greater good anyway, anyways back to here, why do these people who are ABLE to do a job still beg? why cant they just step up and get a job? even if its the most mundane job, atleast they will earn some money right? some of u have mentioned these beggers, some of them atleast are simple scammers who get extra money for acting out as a peice of crap, this is sickening, now I dont know if I should pity at all, although perhaps, or inded there are MANy who just are hopeless.
Other - Society & Culture - 8 Answers
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I agree
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Well, because sometimes they make $30,000 plus a year. I'm sure there are people who are truly in need, but sometimes they're scammers who make more money that way.
3 :
well said
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Believe it or not some of the scumbags that stand on a corner or intersection with a sign make 300-400 a day for being a piece of crap. When people stop feeling sorry for them and stop giving them money they will be forced to get a real job.
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AMEN preach it brother there are SOOOOO many oppurtunites and there are people who actually choose to beg( some have mental problems and wont let their family help)
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Well, I think maybe because they don't think that they can find a job or think that they are able to find one, or they don't know how to find one or something... Because if they do, they wouldn't be begging... Obviously they don't.
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Let me tell you a story. Everyday I went to work there was this man on the highway with the ususal sign "Will work for food" and when I left work he was still there. (approx 8 - 9 hrs a day). People would stop and give money. One day I was late getting out of work and what did I see? This man walking around the corner and getting into his new car and driving off. Need I say more?
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It's everywhere. I get that a lot where I'm from. Especially when you see a perfectly healthy woman standing begging for money than a few days later you see that person at the store buying makeup and dressed nice. I think that is terrible! Peddling off people That's embarrassing!